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2022.01.17 21:35 lonelygirl0087 Should I mend rhe relationship with my sister or cut ties for good?
I (34F) have always had a love/hate relationship with my sister (33F). Growing up we shared a room until our mid teens and were very different. She was always the fun, loud, outgoing one whereas I was awkward, shy, and didn't really fit in. She always tried to include me, even into adulthood and is basically the only friend I ever had.
Over the last few years though, we have had a few big arguments. Some over trivial things and some not so trivial. One of the biggest ones was me not babysitting her 3 children when she asked. Now they are older it is much easier, but when they were younger, it was harder since I am a single mum to a 10 year old. Me going from 1 kid to 4 was a big change and I could only handle it once in a while. She would accuse me of not wanting to spend time with them. To put it in context, I couldn't walk in the street with her 2 oldest without rhem running off into traffic in opposite directions as young children. I had to choose which child to chase, because they didn't listen, and also leave my own son unattended.
I have a great relationship with my sons dad, and he is still very much a part of the family, even though we are not together. He has our son half the week and we make all decisions together. My sister would take offense to me not babysitting her kids on 'my nights off' when my son was with his dad. I saw this as down time since i did everything alone half the week. She also complained about me asking her not to ask my dad to babysit in those nights, as I was living with him at the time because I was always the one who ended up watching them. She constantly stated that it was my fault I'm single for breaking up with my ex but her own marriage is, honestly, the marriage from hell. She kicks her husband out at least 3 times a year, constantly fights and argues with him over tiny things.
Over the last 2 or 3 years though she really stepped it up. Not paying my mum for childcare, putting them in severe debt, slacking on her work which got her fired and then telling her husband to get a 2nd job and man up to support them.
Last year I agreed to let her husband install a new kitchen and utility for me. He had rhe skills so I wasn't worried about the final product I knew they could use the money and I would also save some so it seemed like a good deal. We sat down and agreed all the prices, as well as a small contingency for any unexpected issues. This started early October and my only concern was having it done in time for Christmas. We knew it wouldn't be quick, with BIL working full time, but they assured me it would be done on time. With covid hitting hard earlier that year, we were hoping to have a family meal and I offered to host it. I paid them in advance 2 weeks before Christmas when they said they couldn't afford presents for their kids. A week before I was panicking. The kitchen still wasn't done. It wasn't even half done so I called and told them that they had to make this happen.
They both agreed and said my BIL would be round every available hour to work on it. And he did. For 2 days. She was constantly on the phone complaining about the kids or asking him to run errands, or even asking him to come back home. The next day she left without warning, leaving BIL and 3 kids, so he had no way to finish my kitchen. The kids we a complete wreck with it all. My house was a construction zone so I couldn't even help him out. As a family, we managed to sort it though and he got it semi-functional for Christmas. Cooker, hob, fridge and worktops. That was it.
She returned after 4 days and blamed the family for supporting him and never reaching out to us. Honestly we thought she went on a bender and she never once reached out to us. We all live within a mile of her and she never came to us. Honestly we were done with all her drama by that point.
I had to hound my BIL to finish my kitchen which is still only about 90% done, and he hasn't even touched my utility which was also included. We had a heart to heart and aired out years of bad blood. Never once did she admit any blame in anything which was the final straw for me. Over the years I was always the one to apologise, to change, to bend over to repair the relationship and I was done. She couldn't see any issues in her behaviour or personality at all.
I visited her on her birthday and although I never brought a gift, I still wanted to see her and wish her a happy birthday. I didn't bring a gift because on my birthday I got nothing from her, intact I paid over £60 for take away for us which she never contributed to. Yes it was petty, I know. Instead of polite or civil conversation though she was snippy, rude and disrespectful. She used every insecurity I had and threw it back at my face until I left. I told her I wanted nothing else to do with her other than letting the kids spend time with each other. My son was upset at leaving his cousins so quickly and when he asked why, I evasive told him that his aunt didn't want any company and wasn't feeling well. I wasn't going to drag kids into adult drama.
I know she has been struggling since having her youngest child (son 4) but she has refused help from all family. Even my offers to babysit when I am available. Nights out, nights in. Just a chat. Therapy.
Since then I went to a dark place, have took time off work and went to therapy to help me get through it. I have been nit picking at every single argument we have had in the last few years, and even reliving some from decades ago. It took me a long time to realise she has become very toxic and manipulative and my own naive personality made it easy for her.
I lost my sister and only friend really, and hate that she has changed into someone I don't even recognise. Even my family noticed it and have all became low or no contact with her because of her behaviour. She still feels she is in the right and everyone else is in the wrong. I have been getting hate messages from extended family who side with her and have heard nothing from our side. They are all very close with her so I have also been shunned by most of my cousins, aunts and uncles.
I don't know what to do. Should I give her another chance to admit some fault here and see if she can change, or should I cut ties for good this time?
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2022.01.17 21:35 Impressive-Treat5030 Always scared that my boyfriend does not love me
My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years. I study abroad but because of covid I was home for a long time, the longest we have been apart is maybe 4 months.
Recently we almost broke up, because I have been feeling unloved for a few months and he then told me he was in fact falling out of love. Instead of breaking up, we decided to work on it. After the holidays I had to go back to university and it's been really hard for me. I know he is trying but I don't feel like it's enough for me. I am constantly scared that he doesn't love me and is staying me out of pity. I told him my concerns and he said he's trying to be better and I know it takes time, but I feel awful. I love him so much but the fear of him loving me back is a lot right now. I do think that he does love me, but maybe not enough to stay with me.
How can I stop stressing myself out? I don't want to get used with the thought that he might break up with me soon but I also don't want to lose hope. I feel like i'm annoying him.
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